How scoring works

Compatibility scores can help surface differences earlier. They reflect what you each said you want, but they cannot predict whether a relationship will work or measure chemistry, attraction, or timing.

What shapes the score

For each question, you tell us what's true for you, what you'd accept from a partner, and how important that part of compatibility is to you. You can also adjust how much each area of the questionnaire matters.

For most questions, leaving preferences open means you're okay with any answer. For multiselect and tag questions, your own answers are compared for overlap instead. Passing means the question does not count toward your score.

How answers are compared

Compatibility scores compare each person's answers with what the other person said they would accept, while accounting for their priorities. Answers don't have to match exactly—the score also accounts for answers that are close to what someone prefers.

Compatible answers are not always identical. What counts as a good fit can depend on the question.

Two perspectives, one report

Compatibility is calculated from both perspectives using the preferences and priorities each person set. The report combines those perspectives in the overall score and shows each one separately.

A displayed 100% means the answers that counted were a very strong fit under both people's preferences and priorities. It does not mean you're perfect together or that no dealbreakers were triggered.

Dealbreakers are separate

Dealbreakers don't apply a separate penalty or veto. They're highlighted in every report so both people can see the exact conflict and decide what it means for them.

What both people can see

You each choose how much detail to share, and the report uses the lower level. Level 1 shows the headline and domain scores, plus any dealbreaker conflicts. Level 2 also shows the question details behind the scores.

What the score cannot tell you

The score is based on what both people reported about themselves and what they want. People do not always choose what they say they prefer, and a questionnaire cannot see chemistry, attraction, or timing.

A high or low score is not a verdict on the relationship. It is one way to surface possible areas of fit or disagreement before they take longer to discover.

About the persona quiz

The persona is derived from your answers and designed to be shared. It is deliberately separate from compatibility scoring and is not used to decide which personas belong together.